This is the Steve guy I mentioned before today he asked me if I wanted to hang out… I lied and said I had a doctors appointment though I am sick with strep throat so I really did wanna go home and rest…
Since I take three buses home and one goes to the mall where I catch the third I ran into (just my luck) Steve… First thing he says is “you can at least give me a smoke jade.” Which pissed me off…
Like sorry I can’t hang out with you cause I’m sick that doesn’t mean I owe you a god damn cigarette… Anyways then this guy gives me a ride home (ironically Steve knew him)
I accepted the ride the guy asked me if I wanted to hang out later I said maybe and next thing I know Steve messages me basically indicating that since I didn’t hang out with him it’s not fair that I’d go hang with this other guy.
I wouldn’t have wanted to hang out with him anyways just cause I don’t feel well but even if I did how is that his business… He always looks so angry now it’s scary and I thought him getting a girlfriend would make him back off a little… Guess I was sadly mistaken.

the logic of creepy old men on dating sites who prefer younger women


Middle-Aged Man: I prefer women aged 18-22.

18-Year-Old Woman: I prefer men aged 18-22.

Middle-Aged Man: HOW DARE YOU!!!! AGE IS JUST A NUMBER!!!!



its really important for men to stand up to other men who say terrible and sexist shit

because sexist men dont listen to what women have to say

literally the most important thing men can do if they want to call themselves feminist allies 


This is very hard for me at this moment in my life to express my heart/mind to the world, but I will say these last few months have been the worst months of my life. I was dating someone (J$tash) that abused me verbally ,emotionally and physically throughout the end duration of our relationship. Monday morning on September 15th 2014 my life was forever, changed. A person I thought and believed I could trust, whom I gave my love/time/energy to brutally punched me in my face repeatedly with his fists while I became slowly unconscious covered in blood in his brooklyn apartment bed. After he was done he told me to not tell anyone to not tell my friends, He also started to prepare legal action to protect himself in case I pressed charges against him. He cried and became unstable within his emotions and was apologetic towards his actions, but would continue to say i did this to myself.

He then boarded a flight to Japan a few hours after and has been sending me text messages claiming he will destroy me even more than he already did. He said he will ruin my life! I got brutally beaten for confronting him on infidelity which caused him to become violent in an instant.

Do not interpret this as a cry for help this is honestly a decision to speak up against domestic violence for those who cant due to the manipulative acts our abusers inflict on us to never speak up and for those who didn’t survive because of brutal domestic violence.

I will not allow myself to sit in the shadows of darkness and disrespect myself for not taking a stand.

I am speaking out for all my women!

Be brave this is what bravery looks like.

Abuser: Justin Joseph / J$tash


Holy shit.


Holy shit.

Anonymous asked:
A few years ago my friend got drunk and didn't listen when I said no. It still haunts me every now and then, it still gives me nightmares and it's still hard for me to talk about it. I've told my current boyfriend and he's amazing. He says it's not my fault and he's very supportive. I haven't told anyone else, but lately I'm starting to wonder if I should... Should I tell others? Or not?

It’s entirely up to you and it boils down to what your comfortable with. Nowadays I’m pretty open about being a survivor and if you wanna make people around you aware that’s your choice.
But… Be prepared for the questions… Not everyone is polite, well mannered and respectful.
I’ve had people ask me if I said no or people ask me if I fought back or “what happened exactly” just rude unnecessary questions.
So tell the right people if you do wanna open up please it’ll save a lot of heartache.



>teenage actress’s private nudes get leaked

>teenage actress is reviled as a slut and a whore and a bad role model

>james franco asks a seventeen-year-old girl if he can meet her in a private hotel room

>james franco gets to go on saturday night live and joke about what a silly doofus he is for soliciting sex from a girl literally half his age




things they don’t show you in porn:

  • elbowing each other in the face
  • leg cramps
  • queefing
  • accidentally pulling each other’s hair
  • ass pubes

things they also don’t show in porn:

  • sleepy morning sex
  • mutual giggle fits over awkward situations
  • sex fading…

Being murdered would be preferable quite frankly.


Being murdered would be preferable quite frankly.

Anonymous asked:
When you dread the question "are you a virgin?" Because you honestly don't know the answer