So I was walking the dog with my mum heading to the store and this van of guys showed up (around their twenties) and one peeps his head out of his window and asks bluntly

"Hey could I get your number?"

Like… that’s it, no “hey how’re you beautiful I’d like to get to know you can I maybe have your number?”

Just so damn blunt… so me being blunt responded.

"No man sorry!"

And he literally just stared there his smile still plastered on his face was slowly fading that’s when my Mum piped in

"She’s into girls hun!"

And I replied back to the guys.

"Yeah sorry I swing for the other team!"

They all laughed hysterically then sped off.

For the record I am unlabeled but still… it shouldn’t take me having to say I like women for them to fuck off and not pester me when I’m out on a walk I’m already anxiety ridden and that incident just didn’t help.

On top of that I had another idiot honk his horn at me a good three time and another cabby shin his brights on my mum and me.

People have absolutely no class nowadays.

personoflordlycalibre:

gracefthannah:

boys are fucking stupid

Scumbag

I’ve had the exact same conversation types like these…

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"Over the years, I have come to realize that the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection."
Henri Nouwen (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

meishuu:

feminishblog:

feminishblog:

Practice By Using the Following Phrases When the Opportunity Arrises:

"I’m not interested."

"(Please) Leave me alone."

"I’d rather you not."

"That doesn’t interest me at all."

"You need to stop."

"No."

"That’s not what I said."

radbabyradfem:

~real men don’t abuse women~

In actual fact,

  1. yep, they fucking do
  2. being a real man is associated with masculinity, and masculinity fuels violence against women, so yes again men abuse women
  3. campaigns like this prioritise the preservation of masculinity before the safety of women
micdotcom:

Forget the spreadsheet, here’s an easy flowchart to know if a women owes you sex

Microsoft Excel took a turn for the explicit this week when the Internet learned the once-innocuous office tool was being used in a dispiriting new bro-trend: using the software to track of the number of times their partners refuse sex. Yes, #sexspreadsheets are a thing, presumably because some men still believe that owning of a penis entitles them to unlimited sexy times.
Sorry, guys, that’s just not the way the world works | Follow micdotcom 

micdotcom:

Forget the spreadsheet, here’s an easy flowchart to know if a women owes you sex

Microsoft Excel took a turn for the explicit this week when the Internet learned the once-innocuous office tool was being used in a dispiriting new bro-trend: using the software to track of the number of times their partners refuse sex. Yes, #sexspreadsheets are a thing, presumably because some men still believe that owning of a penis entitles them to unlimited sexy times.

Sorry, guys, that’s just not the way the world works | Follow micdotcom 

Anonymous asked:
Blame therapist?

I’ve gotten this joke already.

Blame the rapist never the victim, not blame the therapist.

Tho it does look that way when its all mashed together like this

blametherapistneverthevictim

So I see where your coming from but would it look better like this?

blame-the-rapist-never-the-victim.tumblr.com

Seems a little long to me :S

xx

caelas:

saying feminism is unnecessary because you don’t feel oppressed is like saying fire extinguishers are unnecessary because your house isn’t on fire

grey-violet:

thorin-and-twerkteam:

emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

this is important because so many people don’t know this